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  • narcissists
    judgment,  narcissistic abuse,  narcissists

    3 Narcissists in the Bible: How God Took Them Out

    God doesn’t always kill His enemies individually in the Old Testament, but when He does, they tend to be narcissists. What Onan, Jezebel, and Nabal each have in common with narcissists is an utter lack of empathy for others, overweening greed, and the suspicion that the world is out to cheat them of what should be theirs. Like the personality disorder that each display, they are self-absorbed and dedicated to taking what they want no matter the cost to others. I have always been a little fascinated by the fact that God occasionally called out a few people and pulled them into permanent time-out. When I started looking at them,…

  • broken,  inner healing,  Inner Vows,  judgment,  promises,  strongholds,  unforgiveness

    Promises You Should Definitely Break

    I believe that it is a common phenomenon among parents that if they seem to agree to something, a child will take that as a definite promise.  That child will then move heaven and earth in order to hold his or her parent’s feet to the fire regarding the so-called promises.  But promises are a serious matter, of more weight than a child’s willfulness.  Promises are sacred, after all, which is why we make them publicly very infrequently. Making promises to oneself seems like a good thing.  After all, each of us fights the battle of daily discipline.  And on the occasion that we fail to live up to our…