The Power of Delight: Four Ways to Experience It

When I think of the power of delight, I think about my mother’s mission trip to China. In 1980, China opened its doors to the Western world to tourists.  My mother took part in the first Christian envoy into China after decades of exclusionist policies.  The difference in the quality of life between the Chinese and the Americans was striking. Of course, this phenomenon is still not unusual when one travels.  The little group was only the second American group allowed in; the first honor going to Bob Hope, the late actor, and his entourage.

The Wretched Power of Complaint:

The Minister of Tourism, Mr. Woo accompanied each group, presumably to keep the groups from seeing anything unflattering.  Despite the same guide, the two groups received very different service and welcome. You see, the actor and his followers noted the difference in affluence and were power of delightvocal in their complaints. The food was not to their liking, the hotels were bare compared to the luxuries available stateside, and the service was lacking.

The group of Christians made up of mostly wives and mothers and a couple pastors, delighted in their surroundings, the culture, and most of all the Chinese themselves. When there was little to praise, they would say, “The skies in China are some of the most beautiful we have ever seen!” In the face of the loving acceptance and clear enjoyment of their guests, the Chinese were charmed and gave themselves fully to the service of this group of ordinary people.

One, in particular, the Minister of Tourism himself, became a Christian when my mother said to him, For God so loved Mr. Woo that He gave His only son for Mr. Woo so that Mr. Woo would not die but spend eternity with his loving Heavenly Father. Mr. Woo experienced the power of delight right away and threw himself into the delight of the Lord with his whole heart.

The power of delight is a language understood by all.

Consider the power delight has within a family.  If the parents praise a child for their intelligence, that child’s identity and basis of self-esteem quickly rally around that single aspect of who they are. So too with beauty, athleticism, and humor.  Suddenly within the family unit, roles become established. Our oldest is the smart one, but our other daughter is the pretty one or athletic one, and our son, well, he is the clown of the family who makes us all laugh. Our children will define themselves by how we delight in them. Talk about the power of delight.

Because the need to be delighted in is so strong, we often downplay other aspects of who we are and capitalize on the one that gets us the approval we need.  What if we could delight in our children for who they are as a whole, and not only in what they do well?  How would that change their relationship to us and to themselves?  If we were to delight in our spouses, extended family, friends, and coworkers, how would that change the tenor of those relationships?  But there is more to this concept of delight than just handing it out like candy.  We can only plant the seeds we have in our hands.

If no one has delighted in you, how can you express easily that which you have not experienced?

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I am often surprised when I read Genesis.  I learn something new every time.  Every time God created something new, He delighted in it.  He saw that it was good.  He created Eden as a place of delight.  Every kind of tree and animal was there, and He spent time delighting in Adam and Eve who themselves delighted in each other and God.

The introduction of contempt, the opposite of delight, by the serpent is part of another discussion.  My point here is this: Have you experienced God’s unconditional delight in you?  Yes, I know you are flawed.  So am I.  But remember, the Word of God is a long love letter to a people who have wandered out of the garden of delight. 

  A God who would suffer and die in order to have relationship restored is a God who delights in his people, indeed.

Want to transform your relationship with God? Your children? Your husband? Even yourself? Learn to delight. Learn to be delighted in. Not sure how?

Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Meditate on scripture in which God is delighting in His people.
  2. Revisit a moment in which God made His loving presence known to you. Remembering that time and reactivating it over and over will actually enlarge your capacity to bond with God and others. Alert! This will change your brain and help it to access joy more easily! Neuroscience has proven this! The power of delight is real.
  3. Find avenues of mini-celebration and enjoyment with those in your life. Celebrating small victories creates delight.
  4. Look for the good in others and in yourself. Remember that if God finds you wholly lovable and acceptable, then your ability to enjoy your life will increase as you adopt His view!

So go on.  Say it to yourself.  God delights in me. He finds me delightful.  He made me and saw that His creation was good.  The extent to which you experience the power of delight from your Father in heaven is the extent to which you will be able to extend the incredibly precious gift of delight to others.  So seek after God and His kingdom of delights with all your heart. We must fill ourselves with the delightful presence of God first before we can dispense it to a world grown weary with contempt.

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Delight: the Ministry of the Holy Spirit

17 Replies to “The Power of Delight: Four Ways to Experience It”

  1. Beautiful! Thank you for that, much needed.

  2. delight yourself in the Lord and he will give yout he desires of your heart

  3. God delights in us – and He wants all of us to delight ourselves in His presence

  4. Such a powerful topic. I love that Jesus sets up the perfect example as he delights in us.

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    What’s up friends, how is everything, and what you wish for to say regarding this paragraph, in my view its really awesome designed for me.

  7. Wonderful article! Enjoyed this encouraging post!

  8. People in general, but especially those living in darkness, are DESPERATE to hear and see the light. What better way than by “delighting” in life right before them?

  9. Beautiful! I love the story about finding things to praise and delight in while in China.

  10. Exactly – God wants us to be delighting in Him as He delights in us

  11. This is a hard topic for us to grasp. I love Zephaniah 3:17. He sings over us!

    “The Lord your God is in your midst,
    a mighty one who will save;
    he will rejoice over you with gladness;
    he will quiet you by his love;
    he will exult over you with loud singing.”

  12. God delights in me!!! What a great reminder!

  13. Wonderful teaching. Thank you for showing us that we must seek God to give us what we will give to others.

  14. I loved this, And this: “Because the need to be delighted in is so strong, we often downplay other aspects of who we are and capitalize on the one that gets us the approval we need,” is so true. I am wary of doing this with my kids. They’re at an age now when they are little sponges and I want them to feel like they can and should try anything because it’s okay if they’re not great at it–it’s another experience and that’s what I want for them. I want that for me too, even at my age. I want to try new things, even if I’m not awesome at it because we thrive when we let God pull us from our comfort zones.

  15. I am so emphatic on joy and you hit an aspect of it I have not thought about…really thought about. Thank you for a beautiful read.

  16. hisdearlyloveddaughter says: Reply

    What comfort there is in knowing my Lord delights in me! It has been one of my primary goals as a mother – to delight in my children as my Father delights in me.

  17. Donna Miller says: Reply

    Delight is my word for 2018. It has been so awesome to grow in delighting in God for Himself instead of just focusing on what He can do for me.

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