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How Jesus Calls Out the Narcissistic Pharisee
The Pharisee pointed out by Jesus for his narcissistic prayer is just the beginning of Jesus calling out narcissism within the Pharisaic sect. But we can learn a lot about Pharisees from this short parable in which Jesus compares a publican or a tax-collector to a Pharisee. In the following verses, we see two men praying, but about what and to whom they pray is up for close observation. And he spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed…
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Attracting Controlling People? Here’s Why.
I both attract and repel controlling people. My entire life, I have gravitated towards people who wanted to dedicate themselves to controlling my life. I did not understand why until much later. Nowadays, I am pretty cautious around people, especially charmers and smooth talkers. I warm slowly to charismatic leaders, and I now listen to what people say, rather than what I think they mean. Taking people’s words at face value saves me a lot of heartaches. For a long time, I considered myself a magnet for anyone with narcissistic traits, and in reality, I was. Not until I recognized in myself, various issues did I begin to draw healthier…
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Five Traits of the Female Narcissist
My first encounter with a genuinely dangerous female narcissist was in the workplace. She was my boss and making a colossal mistake that involved the students under our care. When I pointed out the error repeatedly, she didn’t even consider for a moment that she might have made a mistake. I became the victim of a smear campaign which eventually culminated in her leaving. Facts are facts, after all, and mine were simply irrefutable. Because my first experience with narcissism was with my ex-husband, I was unprepared for a Jezebel to storm into my life. I think that we assume that most narcissists are male. Research suggests that 75% of…
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